When we get free days — days without a scheduled performance — among the many activities we love to do is something we call “Bonding Time.” This is our chance to gather together to reconnect, reenergize, and talk about the positives in our lives as well as the challenges.
One of the topics for a recent bonding time was AIDS and the stigma attached to it. We asked our tour members to define AIDS for us. Here are a few of their answers:
- AIDS does not smile
- AIDS can be treated but it can’t be healed
- AIDS is a disease that people get when they involve themselves in unprotected sex with someone who is sick
- AIDS does not kill – but weakens the immunity so you can die of other things like diarrhea, TB, malaria etc…
- AIDS is a disease that can’t be seen quickly and can take years to show up
- AIDS is a disease that is caused by a virus called HIV.
- AIDS affected me in that I did not get enough love from my parents, so it has been hard for me…but now I am in a good situation because I am getting love from all in the organization.
We also shared some of the situations in which we felt discriminated against or in which a person we knew had experienced any kind of stigma related to it. Rajab shared a story of his friend: “My friend’s mother died of AIDS and the boy left the school to bury his mother. When he returned to school the children ran away from him and wouldn’t play or speak to him. Me, I couldn’t run away. I had to sit with him, eat with him. He was my friend.”
AIDS is a worldwide issue, but it doesn’t directly touch most of our lives here in the United States. In Uganda, and much of Sub-Saharan Africa, it does. Parents, siblings, friends. That’s the current reality of AIDS in Africa, and the reality for these children.











